NOT IN MY PROCESS, FAR FROM MY OUTCOME!

Give your best energy in helping people in their process period. Don't wait for results to come close. Its a regrettable decision to do so young man. Some disciples with their mother went to Jesus to make enquiry on the exalted position in his kingdom. They wanted the top seats when he takes over. They wanted to feel important and enjoy the fun of those moment of victory when he is crown King of the whole world. Waoh, one will sit at the right hand and the other at the left hands in his exalted state. Well, Jesus told them its not a bad idea. Its not something impossible. Its something to be vehemently desired though only his Father can grant such. And he told them the requisite criterion. Will they take part in his cup of suffering? Will they be part of his process in becoming what they wanted for him? Will they hold on with him in trials? Will they overcome temptations and challenges ahead of them? Will they be mocked, shamed and killed for his sake? Well, if they won't stand with him in tough time, how can they enjoy the breakthrough with him? If they won't take his challenge as  theirs, how will they want him to give them crown worth his status when he is exalted? Young man, don't be apologetic about it, anyone who does not stand for you in your process should not feature in your result and outcome. If they despise your little, your greatness should reject them! If they care less for you when you needed shoulders to rest on, your lifted hands should not draw them close. This dose is bifocal. Its important you stand for people in their low state young man. It is important you do your little to carry them. You are opening a big door for yourself and your children in the nearest future. Once you don't partake in their process, don't expect them to share their spoils with you. You don't deserve it. Similarly, don't give room for those who only knows you when you are successful to come too close, you may be digging your own pitfall. Jesus said, if you deny me here, I will deny you before my father in my exalted glory. If they deny you help when needed, don't pay them evil when they need help but don't allow them share in honor of your results and outcome.  Some soldiers were angry that the spoil they brought back from battle were shared with the weak soldiers they left in camp during King David's time. David established a fact that they were weak but still useful in securing the camp. Their help may be weak, at least they offered something. Thus, those can share in the spoils. If they render nothing to you and only wait for your fame, wealth and breakthrough to know you as family and friend, do likewise to them. They are out of your process, they should be far from your outcome. 

Reference; Matthew 20, I Sam 30, 

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