TAKE FEEDBACKS

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Young man, a very short one for you today. How often do you listen to corrections? How often do you give in to rebuke that are goodly and godly? How often do you allow elders and colleagues to check you and give you feedbacks on your behaviors and actions? You sure know that a man's way is perfect in his sight. Only God judge intentions. However, he place people around you who could check you and tell you to take cautions. People who can check you cos of their love for you. Elders who can rebuke you and tell you the truth.   David had one in Joab when he wanted to do the unnecessary census that God was against. He never listened. He was arrogant not to and it cost the Israelite badly. Several lives were lost cos he never allowed a check and caution. A child that is been chastised and hardens his neck will be destroyed suddenly. Take the warning signs. Take the corrections. They are subsets of feedbacks and it helps to grow who you are designed to be. You need to know that God is deliberate with the way you respond to this aspect of your life. If you refuse to take feedbacks and just continue without a check, it may be a dangerous journey lazed with calamity.  Feedbacks are essentially important for your growth and directions. It shapes you positively or negatively. If you fail to respond well to it or you don't even take it at all, you may end in the scenario David found himself. Samson Manoah was given feedbacks but he ignored them. The parent gave several feedbacks on his ways but he was a superman who will not listen. He regretted the actions when he was captured. A mighty man turned slave with his eyes gouged out. Young man, take feedbacks. Absalom had several feedbacks too. He never listened. He wasted his beauty and was hung by same. God is always interested in you giving heed to instructions that comes from feedbacks. If they are positive, build on them. If they are negative, never joke with them. Take them with all seriousness and you will end well. 

References: Proverb 29 v1. 

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