APOLOGIZE, YOU ARE WRONG

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Young man, one major variable that defines you is your ability to apologize while you are wrong. Strongly speaking,  you should have no apology for being right. None. But when you are wrong, admit and don't cover up your wrongs with excuses and some unnecessary grammars. The bane of your humility lies therein. It is dangerous to be wrong and yet stands straight. Your feet is already set on a path of destruction doing such. You wronged your friends? Apologize, you won't die. You wronged your mentor? Apologize, it will strengthen your relationship. You wronged your family member, apologize and your relationship will be steady. You see, don't use your position to stampede people when you are wrong. Don't intimidate them with power or drag the issue under carpet. Boss, you are wrong, apologize. You won't die. You wronged your partner so badly and yet doing strong head, apologize. Apology does not take what you have done away, mind you. It only grease your relationship with others. Learn not to repeat similar error again that will demand you apologizing. While some may be magnanimous in their heart to let go, others may block you from them forever once you are repeating same wrongdoing. This may have a very hard impact on who you are becoming. David was wrong when he took Uriah's wife. He never wanted to apologize. He was covering up his wrong here and there. It boomeranged and caused him losses. Credo dollar was preaching of recent and he publicly admitted that his teachings in books, tapes, tiktok and all on tithing should be discard because he was wrong. Apologizing to the people who were his disciples does not demean him. He was wrong and he did the right thing. Dude, don't speak grammar, don't give excuses. Just apologize and don't let that be a repetitive one. You may loose your value before people and remain locked out of valuable relationships deliberately designed by God to forge you to become all he has for you. 

Reference; 2 Sam 11-12. 

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