ACTING BIG, YOUR BIG LOSS

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While it is not bad to give yourself a big package in dressing and all, it is essential you don't overdo it and chase your helpers away. You must beware of a fake life on social media with designer clothing and shoes when you are really far from the reality of your life. You must beware of posing with someone else cars and building when you are still struggling somewhere looking for a lifter. Have you imagine how someone who has not really been eating well is posing with the best restaurants? You go to LinkedIn and all to claim what you are not and people feel you have arrived not knowing that you are far from starting at all. If you act big, it may be your own big loss. You may have missed helpers who considered you already fulfilled. Don't ever give in to such a vague living. Don't ever give in to such a camouflage. You may regret it later and seek opportunities your acting big had caused you to miss. I have come in contact with colleagues who needed help but love acting big. They ride around in another friend's car. Spend time on frivolity rather than chasing their goals and dreams with every strength in them. You are lost when you act big to your helper. You are in for plastic deformation when you give in to displaying who you are not to the one empowered to raise you up in life. You may not recover from such a deformation except for mercy. Acting big place you in a position of competition because of low self esteem. The void in you cannot be filled with heavy designer clothes. The lapses in you cannot be subdued by acting big. Be who you are. Express your need to meaningful helper. Don't act what you are not. It is not faith, it is stupidity. It may chase helper from you. Naman was a mighty soldier with leprosy. He usually wear cloth cover his  weakness. He was not normal but he was a mighty soldier. How can he not act normal? Help located him to go to Jordan, a small river to bath and get healed. Naman wanted to act big to prophet Elisha. He felt he was too big for what he was asked to do. Well, that may have been his loss. He was advised by a young girl to do what he was told to do. He did it and got healed. Don't act big, it may be your big loss where a vital parameter in the equation of your becoming is missed forever. 

Reference; II king 5 

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