FAILURE

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 One word we hate like anything. One word we despise to the core as humans. Yea, nobody celebrates failure. Nobody! Everyone celebrates achievers and all. However, I need to let you know that in your making process, you may have to fail countless times as you progress in life. No, did I hear you say, I reject it? Well, if you want to do anything unusual, there are paths that you need to tread. Paths people are scared of treading. Paths loaded with slippery conditions and all. Yet, you desire to go through and excel. You desire to set new records. Man, you may have to fall several times to get your feet strengthened. You may have to make mistakes that lead to failure on such paths. Don't fret. You are in your making process. If you failed a course, pick up and do it again. But now, do it well. If you failed in starting your business don't give up. Go again. You have set a time-bounded goal and failed, that's not the end of life. You are not a failure until you take the position of NOT TRYING again. Failure is part of the making process. Genuine evaluation of why you failed and implementation of your findings for a new trial is key to success in life. Some people failed once and that's it. They gave up. No, that's not you. You are in the making process. A failed relationship, try again. This time, implement your lessons from the previous trial to get better. Peter failed Jesus several times. He was the ROCK, designed to lead the apostles. Yet. He failed several times. But he never stayed in his failure. He was always running back to Jesus. Ready to go forward with him. Whereas, Judas took that permanent position of failure, could not forgive himself. Refused to stand up from that fall (failed position). He ended it all. There are many suicide attempts and deaths these days because they believed that's the end of it. They believed that there is no remedy to their failure. Failure is part of the deigned process. Embrace it, learn from it and implement your lessons for a new trial. You are not a failure because you failed, you are a failure because you refused to try again.

Reference:Luke 24 v 54-62

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