When the Lamp Still Burns but the Oil Is Gone
The parable does not begin in failure. That is what makes it unsettling. It begins with similarity. Ten virgins equally called, equally waiting, equally expectant. There is no visible distinction at first glance, no moral hierarchy, no hint that half of them will be left outside a shut door. All are pure. All are devoted. All carry lamps. All once burned.
This alone dismantles the comfortable assumption that the parable is about unbelievers and believers. It is not. It is about people who belong, who desire, who wait, who love. The danger is not the absence of faith but the quiet erosion of what sustains it.
The lamps burned at the beginning because beginnings are generous. Early faith carries its own momentum. Fire feels natural then. Obedience feels light. Waiting feels hopeful. In that season, oil is present but unnoticed consumed without concern because the flame has not yet been tested by time. The virgins did not fail to light their lamps. They failed to account for how long the night would be.
The delay of the bridegroom is not incidental. It is the axis on which the entire parable turns. Delay introduces weariness. Delay turns passion into routine. Delay exposes whether faith is built on encounter or sustained by discipline. Everyone sleeps Scripture says. This is not condemnation. It is realism. Even the wise rest. The difference is not in staying awake but in what remains when awakening is demanded.
When the cry comes, it is sudden, piercing, irreversible. There is no time to prepare then only to reveal. The lamps are raised and what has been quietly diminishing becomes painfully obvious. The foolish virgins are not empty handed. They still have lamps. They are not faithless. They are still waiting. But the inner supply that once fed the flame has been exhausted by neglect not rebellion. Loss does not always come through defiance. Sometimes it comes through drift.
The request for oil is desperate but honest. It acknowledges what many realize too late that spiritual vitality cannot be borrowed in a crisis. Intimacy cannot be transferred. No one can live another person’s hidden life with God. No one can lend accumulated obedience, unconfessed repentance or cultivated attentiveness to the Spirit. Oil is private. Always has been.
The presence of the oil sellers introduces an even deeper unease. They have oil. They can supply it. Yet they are not part of the celebration. Proximity to spiritual resources is not the same as union with the bridegroom. One can handle sacred things, distribute spiritual goods, even profit from religious systems and still remain outside the marriage.
When the door shuts, the language shifts. It is no longer about lamps or oil but recognition. I do not know you. These words are not spoken to strangers but to those who stood nearby waited alongside and looked the part. Knowledge here is not information. It is relational continuity. The tragedy is not that they once knew Him but that the relationship was not sustained through time.
The parable does not answer every theological question it raises and perhaps that is intentional. It leaves the reader unsettled, searching, self examining. It refuses to let past fire guarantee future readiness. It insists that love must be maintained not merely remembered. It confronts the comforting idea that beginning well is enough.
In the end, the warning is not harsh. It is precise. Watch, Jesus says. Not with anxiety but with care. Not by staring into the night sky but by tending the inner life that keeps the light alive. The true danger is not the darkness of the night but the assumption that yesterday’s oil will be sufficient for today’s delay.
The lamp can still be in your hand. The flame can still flicker. But only oil carries light through the long night. Tend the inner man, watch for every weight that can exhaust the oil.
Selah!
Reference: Mathew 25 v 1-13
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